Friday, March 15, 2013

My Family Culture

The three items I would choose to bring with me would be my family scrapbook, Elasta QP hair relaxer, and deodorant. I would bring the family scrapbook because it, of course, holds all my family memories. I would bring the Elasta QP hair relaxer because I enjoy being able to comb through my hair once I have used the relaxer. I would bring the deodorant, as odd as it may seem, because I am an advocate for great hygiene. I encountered a young woman from Germany once while in undergraduate school who informed me that her culture did not believe in wearing deodorant. She did not emit a very good smell! If, upon arrival, I was told that I could only keep two of the personal items it would depend on where I am as to how upset I would be. I would keep my family scrapbook because it is extremely personal to me. However, the other items may not be as important as I initially think. For example, I would not have a problem giving up my hair relaxer or deodorant if they sold those things, or substitutes, in the country I am evacuated to. If those items were not sold I would not be devastated because I would find things that could be used in the same manner as the items I would be told to give up. The only insight I gained in the process or as a result of doing this exercise is that I don't abide by strict family culture rules. Yes, my family culture is definitely important to me, but I can easily adjust when necessary. My religion is baptist, however I'm not going to fall dead if I can only attend a catholic church once evacuated.

4 comments:

  1. Towanda I had chosen photo album of my family, and hair relaxer also, these things are very important to me. My family album has so many good memories I will like to hold on to. And perm (hair relaxer), I love combing through my hair, and also I want to stay looking my best.

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  2. Towanda!
    I had to laugh when I saw the hair relaxer! I keep braids in my hair and I honestly did not think about that even though hair relaxers are very important to our culture. I love to smell and look good and so hopefully I would be able to find soap and water to maintain my good hygiene. I would hope that there would be hygiene products! You have me thinking now! Good ideas!!!

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  3. Towanda,
    I selected a box of family pictures as well. I agree that it is a great way to remember those closest to you. Photos are an important thing in my families culture. I never would have thought about the deodorant. I think that it is great that you are such a big advocate for hygiene.

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  4. Hi Towanda

    There is one common thing we share when we are evacuated, the family album. You and I are different in race and ethnicity, but we believe photos are dear to us and can represent our family culture. The album captured our family values and emotions and our feelings. Wong

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