I would have to say that the number one support in my life is God. It is definitely through Him that I receive all my help. Without God's assistance I would have nothing and I would be nothing. My mother is my next source of support. Although she resides 3 hours away and is not physically supporting me or providing direct support to me daily, her conversations and encouraging words help me tremendously. At times it can be an extreme inconvenience when trainings for my job require me to stay several nights away from home, or when my children are ill and unable to attend school. During those times, I have no worries because I know my mother is only a telephone call away and will meet me half way to pick up and keep my children for as long as I need her to. We talk on the phone several times a day and she really keeps me going. I can't imagine what my life would be like without her. My oldest son is also a great contributor to my support because he spends a lot of time with my two younger children. I wanted my last child to be a girl, but thank God for all my boys because simple things like having my son bathe them at night while I do other things is greatly appreciated. Because he enjoys spending time with them by taking them for walks in the neighborhood or playing outside, I am able to accomplish many things due to his support. It would be very difficult to do some of what I do without my oldest son's support because my other two children are young and close in age. The benefits of my mother's and son's support is that they allow me those much needed breaks when I need them the most. They are both very encouraging, they help me to stay focused, and remind me to keep a positive attitude.
The challenge I chose to imagine would be not having a vehicle. I would definitely have to have some very supportive friends because I have absolutely no family residing in the city I reside in. Those people would have to be very willing, able, patient, compassionate, and understanding. They would also have to have a large vehicle to accomodate my family and it would certainly help if they didn't have any children of their own. I would have to do some budget changes to provide them with gas money as well as pay for a taxi whenever necessary.
Great Post! This is entierly important as well being that it can lead to guidance throughout lifes daily obstacles. Positivity and appreciation for ever day battles can in fact take turn within this. Its also great to see the support that you have with your children, and Older son. Great story!!!!
ReplyDeleteHi, Towanda!
ReplyDeleteI understand the need for God in your life...me too! He is the reason I do what I do every day, whether it is work, ministry, or parenting. I also understand the parental support. It is harder having my parents only 25 min away versus the 3 min I am used to. I can't imagine them being several hours away.
And I have dealt with the lack of car thing. My husband and I were down to one vehicle for almost a year, and it was NOT easy. Being down to one was hard enough. When we have been down to none, we've relied on my parents for help, yet again!
Lea
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ReplyDeleteGreat post and inspiring as well. Thank you for sharing your spiritual belief and the foundation you have with God being first in your life. Believing and staying positive despite the obstacles is the road to continued success.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing
God is our present help in need. He loves us unconditionally. I bless God for your life for giving you a wonderful mother and great children. Not having a car as you imagined will certainly be a disaster. Car is a necessity and helps you move freely and easier. Having to depend on someone’s car will definitely not work because they have their own program that differs from yours. My warm regards to your boys. Have you checked your Walden mail? I sent you one, please reply.
ReplyDeleteMy mom is also three hours away. We often do the halfway meet up for to take the kids when we need her to. I wish she was here in town, hopefully her job hunting here will go well soon.
ReplyDeleteThe car thing, especially with young kids would be very difficult. On the good news is that we have a fantastic public transportation in my city and a eleven bus stops within 1/4 mile, so we would be able to manage it. I never want to have to find out though!